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3 Truths that Prove You Need to be Social in Your Selling

January 6, 2016

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The new normal in business strategy is to be social in your selling and personal with your audience in your marketing. From small businesses to large corporations, people expect that companies incorporate social selling into their plans.

You know that our offers must be aimed at solving problems for customers. Answering the question of “what’s in it for me?” is a top priority. However, the money and satisfaction from helping others are in the relationship. And it’s social media that helps build that relationship.

Social selling is an investment in your audience. Connect!Click To Tweet

As you incorporate the ‘know, like and trust’ factor in your marketing plans, you will become more social across the board.

However, don’t expect immediate results. Social selling is an investment in relationship building, sharing your story, displaying your personality, and proving your value to others before they buy from you. It takes time, but here are a few tips to help.

Truth #1: Your Audience Wants to Connect With YOU, Not Your Business

I’ve seen it with my own social media accounts as well as with big names in specific industries: the accounts using personal names often outweigh the business accounts in terms of engagement and popularity.

Is it because businesses engage less? Or is it because people want to connect with other PEOPLE versus a business? Interaction with a business feels far more ‘salesy’ than engaging in an online conversation with another specific, known human being.

Be social in your selling to build relationships before making the sales pitch.Click To Tweet

Some will say that social marketing is not a popularity contest and that social media numbers are a vanity metric. I don’t disagree, but I don’t completely agree either.

Klout scoring helps individuals get noticed.
The now-defunct Klout score used to measure people’s social clout.

Social media impacts your search engine juice as well as your influence on your community.  In many ways, you are judged by your social media metrics.

For example, social signals and search engine algorithms tally up your social scores. The more ‘popular’ and engaging you are, the better you’re rated—in search engines, by your audience, by your colleagues.

As a brand, you’re constantly graded and analyzed based on social metrics. You best accept that right now!  The better your social engagement, visibility, and reach, the better your score.

The result is more visibility, influence, and authority, which helps to sell.

Truth #2: You Get Fans—When You Really “Get” Your Fans

The minute your audience relates to you and becomes a fan is the moment when they see that you understand them—and once was in their shoes. And how do you do this? You share your story in a personable, relatable way via social media, your website, and your lead magnets.

If you continue sharing your journey, you’ll keep up the momentum of why people followed you in the first place. People want to feel as if they are right there along with you.

Creating loyal fans is your ultimate goal with social selling. Your most avid followers will stick around because they relate to you, your brand, and your products/services.

Social selling: true fans stick around because they relate to your brand and offers.
Being social helps create loyal fans who relate to your brand and your offers.

 

This is where social media can outperform marketing to a cold audience. Imagine having a faithful following to whom you continually offer value. When you launch new products or services, they’ll be there waiting since you’ve connected to them beyond what you sell. This is what some many business owners and entrepreneurs overlook when investing in social media.

True fans last a long time, so invest in them because they’re also your customer!

Share your story to find your ideal customers and loyal fans!Click To Tweet

Truth #3: The Money May Be In the List, But It’s the Relationship that Succeeds

Building your email list is an important goal to ensure that you have direct access to your audience. However, there is no point in that list unless you have an ongoing, social relationship with your audience, including your subscribers.

You need a relationship with your email subscribers if you want them to buy from you.Click To Tweet

The world is inundated with email offers and opt-in opportunities. How do you stand out? The difference could be in how you relate to others—and how they relate to you. Your consistent but well-timed emails create a connection between you and your subscribers.

You may not hear directly from your subscribers, but you’ll know if you’re resonating with them because they’ll stay on your list. Without the connection, your subscribers and fans won’t stay. There’s always someone else courting them, so you need to consistently share your stories, offer value, and maintain a relationship.

It Takes Practice to Be Social in Your Selling

There’s a fine line between social selling and overly promotional content. And sometimes it’s tough to know when to be social and when to promote your offer.

The important part is that your audience wants to know you before they buy. Being social before you sell helps to build the relationship and your brand. When it comes time to make the offer, your prospects and fans won’t mind.

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About the Author Meghan Monaghan

Identified as one of the top 100 content marketers to follow by Semrush and Buzzsumo, Meghan Monaghan is a marketing consultant and creator of the Content Profit Plan, her approach for generating leads and sales from website content. Over the past 27 years, she has worked in various marketing roles for startups, small businesses, entrepreneurs, and large corporations. Today, Meghan helps coaches, consultants, and service providers use content marketing to grow their businesses. You'll find her talking about marketing and productivity on The Messy Desk Podcast. She's passionate about dogs, veganism, faith, and minimal marketing.

  1. These are all great points. People connect — and do business with — people they can relate to, not to logos. And when it comes to social media, please be social! I see so many businesses that do nothing but sell, sell, sell on their profiles. Not interested.

  2. Love this – My business is fiction writing and I feel that I have a lot to offer my reading community. My first novel, Sweet Dreams, has a nurse as its heroine. My next novel, Sleep Tight, will as well. I feel that if I can help give nurses a voice with my own authentic nurse’s voice, my mission is accomplished. I’ll certainly do best if I implement the “know, like, and trust” factor. As somebody told me when I first started this expedition, “Play nice in the sandbox.”

  3. Girl.. you are right on. I think I always got the part about the relationship.. but like you mention about the list, finally this year it clicked… together… that I need to put the two of them, together… better that I was already doing.. to truly kill it and I have made those changes, among others and starting to see the results… but it won’t stop there… I am moving and shaking this year. Excited!

  4. Lisa makes a good point that free challenges are an excellent way to get your fans interacting and engaged with you on a daily basis for a short amount of time. The key take away from this article however is to keep them engaged beyond that and strengthen that relationship over time.

  5. I’m still waiting to gain an actual paying customer strictly found through social media Meghan. For my business of website design, word-of-mouth far out ways any social media account in gaining customers.

  6. Has there ever been another way, but to be social? For me, the only way I know is to build relationships and as you know, I do this through storytelling. I take my own personal experiences and adventures and build my articles this way. What I am “selling”, what we all are selling, is ourselves. I believe this might be the first principle of successful selling from long before social media days. My challenge, because my style is so personal, is how to take this and offer my writing talent and my conversational style, to help others share their stories. This is a great post, Meghan and I actually feel like I am on track with how I am online. People must trust you and feel a resonance before they will want to work with you.

    1. Storytelling is likely one of the most (if not the most) effective tool in connecting with people online. You’re great at it Beverley. I’d love to see you take this connection and your passion for writing and turn it into an online course or a membership site. You have much to share and to teach!

  7. I really appreciate this information. I am continually improving my skills and definitely believe everything is about relationships. I teach this in a different way and the social media info is so beneficial.

  8. It’s so true: relationship marketing is what it’s all about these days. No more cold selling. My favorite of your statements is You Get Fans—When You Really “Get” Your Fans. If we don’t understand them, we won’t be able to write to them in a way that they can see that we are the solution to their problems.

  9. You definitely need that Know, like, trust aspect in order to sell! I had 3 local studios for years & was used to seeing people in person & selling my training easily because of the in person connection. Moving to online was quite difficult because it takes so much longer to connect to people. What I’ve incorporated is Periscope (love this platform) and my free offer is a 7 day challenge so women have a whole week with me to get know what I’m like.

  10. I totally agree. We have gotten to the point where we, as viewers, want to know we are not talking to machines or businesses. I keep telling my small business clients this, some listen, some just don’t get it. They will come around, I know it. Thanks for sharing these truths.

  11. I love this post and know that everything you say is valid. It has been challenging to translate all the great info from you & the influencers you list to a business such as mine. Does jewelry solve a problem? Well sometimes if looking to match an outfit or a particular color. I do my best to show my personality, interests, background thru posts, blogs & comments. I used to think just showing our products would be enuff but that came off as too salesy so I’ve learned about social relationship marketing. Good thing I love engaging with people while my daughter/partner prefers to stay behind the scenes.

  12. This really got me thinking about my social media. Thanks for the things to ponder.

  13. It’s intriguing how there are so many tools to help us to be more social everywhere digitally. The challenge is finding all the right places to be! Valuable points.

  14. This is great food for thought! As an author, I was schooled long ago that I wasn’t selling my books, but selling myself. It really changed my perceptions.
    I’m now chewing on # 2–“getting” my fans. I’m going to give that a lot of thought! Thank You.

    1. Thanks Susan! I think that understanding our audience is gold–and our understanding may change over time as we discover more about our fans or as they change.

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